Dear Rude Recent Wannabe-Commenter(s?),
You may be wondering why your comments did not get published, or perhaps you’d already guessed that your inane, snide comments would never make it through moderation. You may be one person making multiple attempts to comment, or you may be many people sending similar messages of juvenile name-calling and attempted insults. You may be truly functionally illiterate, or you may be attempting to disguise your true identity by pretending to be.
While there are obviously many things I do not know about you, I can discern enough from your now-deleted comments to make a number of educated guesses about you and your motivations.
You hate my partner Dirt, and therefore you also hate me. You delude yourself into thinking you are happy, but underneath your brittle bravado, you are empty, lost, and sad. You feel that anyone who even questions your strongly-held beliefs is inherently evil and therefore must be intimidated, punished, and silenced. You mistake critical thinking and genuine concern for “hate speech”.
And, you are under the very mistaken impression that you can hurt my feelings, silence me, or scare me.
You, and those like you, think that if you can just silence all dissension, pass myriad laws, and strong-arm everyone into accepting the impossible, then finally you will feel validated, complete, real.
But you won’t.
Because it is all just a house of cards, bound to be toppled eventually by reality.
You can call me a c*nt and a bitch and tell me that I am stupid and guilty (or “guiltie” as you spelled it in one comment), but spewing all the venom in the world still won’t change reality.
Here’s the thing with life: Wherever you go, there you are.
You likely already know this on some level. Every time others don’t see you as you want to be seen, a part of you knows why. Every time your body tries to fight it’s way back to normal, despite the repeated damage you are doing to it, a part of you knows why. And that “why” is because, deep down, you are still the same person you were when you made the unfortunate and illogical decision to try to “become your true self” by changing everything true about yourself.
People who are truly balanced and content do not need to make trolling comments. People who are genuinely happy with their life decisions are too busy actually living their lives.
So, next time you decide to make disparaging comments to me (or, for that matter, to anyone else), you really need to realize that your comments always say a lot more about you than they do about the intended recipient.
When the bottom drops out, and it will, you will see that Dirt was right all along. If you need help, let us know and we will try to help you pick up the pieces.
Until then, if you ever want to actually have a coherent, respectful, intelligent discussion, please let me know.
Otherwise, don’t even bother leaving comments like your recent ones, because not only will they never be published, you are only making yourself look pitiful.