…I’m confused but is this true Saye? that ” Firstly, her (femmes) primary desire, both sexually and of the heart, is for butches. Is this saying that if you’re attracted to another femme than you’re not a true lesbian???
No, what it means is that someone isn’t a “true Femme”; but she would be a Lesbian though (typically known as a Lipstick Lesbian).
In other words, in the historical/correct use of the term “Femme”, it means a (Femme) Lesbian who is attracted to Butches. “Feminine presenting” Lesbians who are attracted to other “Feminine presenting” Lesbians are called Lipstick Lesbians.
Aw, thank you 🙂
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Love your writing! 🙂
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…I’m confused but is this true Saye? that ” Firstly, her (femmes) primary desire, both sexually and of the heart, is for butches. Is this saying that if you’re attracted to another femme than you’re not a true lesbian???
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No, what it means is that someone isn’t a “true Femme”; but she would be a Lesbian though (typically known as a Lipstick Lesbian).
In other words, in the historical/correct use of the term “Femme”, it means a (Femme) Lesbian who is attracted to Butches. “Feminine presenting” Lesbians who are attracted to other “Feminine presenting” Lesbians are called Lipstick Lesbians.
Hope this makes sense — let me know if not! 🙂
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Ohhhh okay! Thanks for explaining
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Anytime! 👍🏻
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