Great post by Hekate on what REAL Femmes are like!
Firstly, in English, “femme” is a Lesbian term. I plan to do a post on the history of the usage of the term by Lesbians, but for now I’ll focus on the meaning.
A genuine femme is, first and foremost, a genuine lesbian, a specific type of genuine lesbian.
So, What is a genuine lesbian?
A female who was born a lesbian. There are many ways in which lesbians differ from straight females, but the defining characteristic is homosexuality. By which I mean, we have an innate, biological, homosexual orientation. We sexually desire females and not males. It’s very simple. Yet, there is SOOOO much controversy around the meaning of these terms!!!! Straight people just don’t get it!!!
So, now we have defined Lesbian, what is it that makes a lesbian a femme???
Firstly, her primary desire, both sexually and of the heart, is for butches. Which brings up another…
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